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Tuesday, 30 April 2013

Searching For Place and Peace

The youngest member of the herd, Venus DreamWalker is a constant reminder to us of the need to belong. She searches each and every day for a way to connect with another member on a deeper level. She is searching for a balancing partner and sometimes, most times, one of 'us' fills the gap replicating another horse to give her 'the touch' every body needs.

April 30, 2013 she quietly seeks balance with Luc and Sirius and later Trinity.

 Luc and Sirius balancing each other and all that surrounds them
 Venus begins to maneuver her way closer 
 Under the watchful eye and energy of the eagle



 The circling begins....Venus has been careful up to this point to keep an equal distance away as she circles, grazing, however Luc feels she has come in too close..and drives her out.

 Venus 'baby talks' hoping to win favor
 Luc and Sirius resume their balancing
 Venus tries again, by circling

 As long as she remains at 'the edge' of the allowed perimeter all is well

 Venus begins to 'poke' her head to the inside

 Luc braces his neck as he stops his work with Sirius. 
In unison Venus returns to the outside of the circle
 Venus approaches Trinity to assess her willingness to balance with her


 An eye movement is all it takes to tell Venus 'not right now'..
 Venus is learning the subtleties of the Medicine Herd. 

 Balancing and grounding complete
The herd resumes grazing for now.

This teaching will continue with Venus until she refrains from interrupting 'work in progress' whether that be balancing and grounding or meditation.
Sometimes, when the other horses lie down to drift away to other realms, Venus becomes agitated and paws at their bodies to 'bring them back'.
This is all part of the process.
Stay tuned.....

Monday, 8 April 2013

Perspectives


Venus DreamWalker



I notice themes.
I notice details in life.
It is my 'flaw' or my 'gift', depending on perspective.

The theme that is currently running through my life involves training methods and trainers who use them.
Lately, when I put on my Equine Behavior Modification Specialist hat and go out in the world to work with the horses I've been called out to see I see that they all have similar unwanted behavior issues.

'Bolting on the right rein',
'Bucking for no apparent reason',
'Aggressiveness for no apparent reason' along with a few others....

I like to determine the type of work that has been done up to the point of my meeting the horse and also in some cases who has done the work.

It is easy for me to locate the moment(s) of miscommunication when I know who put the training on the horse.

In my general location the training pool is small compared to off island locations.

Many of the local trainers are young and most follow one or two more senior trainers from off island.

The methods they use are called 'Natural Horsemanship'... but to the horses that are having trouble the horse-man-ship is anything BUT natural.

The methods being used which are based on 'body language' and 'games' are inadvertently pushing all of the self survival defenses in the  non-compliant intelligent individuals among the equine species.

The methods will work and show success with compliant members of the herd. Given the fact that most domestic pleasure and working horses have been dumbed down purposefully to be more compliant this puts the odds in the trainers' favor.

However, when presented with horses from the range as an example or from 'feral' herds or mustangs who have been rounded up and sold off these 'methods' fall apart and the horses ultimately become labelled as 'untrainable'.

The horse may end up being passed from trainer to trainer becoming worse as he passes through hands.

The more people whose hands he passes through, the more people that the horse tries to talk to about his problems, the more frustrated the horse will become and the more resistant and insistent he will be.

When I watch videos of the trainers working with the horses and I hear the words that go along with the videos...they don't match.

The body language they are using...and the reasons they are using them...don't add up...to me or the horse.

What I see are predators. Dogs. Skulking stick carrying (in some cases) wolves, cougars, predators.

What I also see is the 'mimicry' of motions that would have been used by early indigenous horsemen and women.....Shamans.

I see the movements and the 'body language' as uneducated imitations of the energy movements and shape shifting and healing used by Shamans..the Medicine People and those who knew their ways.

If you happened upon an authentic natural horse person, a person who truly is using the language of the horse, you would see movements of body, arms and hands.

It is the 'unseen' that confuses and has confused the modern day 'natural horse man'.

The 'unseen' movement of energy.
The 'unheard' telepathic communication.
The 'unknown' understanding between species as thought forms rise into consciousness.
The 'unfelt' connection.

As an example:

imagine watching a dressage master riding his horse in a collected manner and not having the eye or experience to note that the master had no contact on the horses mouth or sides..

How would you replicate this without the wisdom and knowledge and experience that goes along with it?

Trappings are designed.

Lunging harnesses that 'push, pull and make avoidance impossible' are used to create the 'form' as was seen when the master rode his horse.

Bits with more leverage are introduced.

Bridles with straps to hold mouths closed are implemented.

Spurs are worn.

Whips are carried.

Daily, boring, often painful, training sessions are implemented.

All of these are based on a 'flawed perspective' of the seen because there was no understanding of the unseen.

In the case of Natural Horsemanship many of the theories put in place make sense to 'man' because we are predators thinking and working form the 'flawed perspective of the predator'.
Horses are sentient prey animals with an entirely different perspective.

Recently I worked with a client who had studied under two different NH trainers who both use a similar method.

Her horse had become defensive in quite an extreme manner.
This came as quite a surprise to the owner and trainers alike since he'd been a very 'compliant' horse and was learning quickly. 
Physical ailments were ruled out by veterinarians as well as alternative health professionals.

As is my usual practice I 'felt' the horse from a distance, observed his surroundings and the other horses both on and off the immediate property....and then asked the owner to show me what she normally does with her horse.

She had learned several 'games' to play with the horse to warm it up.

As she began to show me the first 'game' I had her talk me through the process, telling me how and why she was doing what she was doing...all the while watching and 'feeling' the reaction of the horse.

What I saw and felt was a horse who immediately retreated into the shell of his hide, stood stock still (except for his eyes and ears) as long as he could bear it.

His fear and anxiety was palpable (to me), and was clearly visible (to me) but went unnoticed by his owner.

His owner saw something quite different.

She saw him as being calm and accepting.....and well on his way to being 'desensitized'....which was the goal.


As the game progressed the horse began to fidget. 
His eyes widened. 
His ears became animated.

...and then 'he lost it' and scooted as far away as the lead would allow.

The perspective of 'the game' she had been 'playing' with him was to touch him on his body and anywhere he flinched she was to circle with her fingertips until he stopped flinching. This was intended to desensitize him..as was taught to her.

The flawed perspective is this....
When a horse flinches under touch it means there is energy sitting in that area that wants to move. By circling in the area you inadvertently increase the energy to that area.
If you have been moving around the horse with motions and  movements relegated by him to be that of a predator (ie: slow and methodical and with focus) he will be 'on the muscle' and prepared to move if necessary.

The perspective of the horse and the perspective of people who know the horse is this.......

Come to the horse in a good way.
Have no fear.... this you cannot fake.
Have it in your mind and heart to ease his fears.
Move purposefully and with integrity.
Come from the heart and when you touch him remember to breathe deeply, quietly and rhythmically.
If he flinches under your hand, hold it lightly and calmly on anywhere other than his topline including his neck.
Use slow circles down his neck, withers, along his back to his tail head.
All other areas including the poll, brow and face simply hold your hands still and breathe deeply.
From time to time use a sweeping gesture toward the ground to move the energy.

The horses' perspective toward you will change instantly.

You'll now be coming from a place in his world...his way...
This is the way the 'old people' learned how to be with horse.
The old people, the medicine people, the Shamans.



'The Games' that many natural horsemanship theories are based on are replications of what was seen and not understood at the energetic level where horse resides.
The sticks, the strings, the gimmicks are all necessary in order to get the result (or so they believe) that simple movement of energy will get.

Think back to the dressage horse......
Let's get back to natural.

With a little more understanding and a few simple shifts in perspective the whole world of horse training will shape shift into something more natural to the horse. 

It is easier than you think.......


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Sunday, 17 March 2013

A Mare Without Skills

It is becoming more and more common for mares who have not had adequate natural social interaction to lack 'triggers' that kick their instincts into play when they have their first foal or two.

A few years ago I was asked to visit such a mare, Tarot.

She'd had a normal foaling some nine days prior but had no real interest in her foal other than to allow it to nurse when necessary.

This simply meant that she had not been allowed sufficient time with her own dam or more likely was the product of a 'rapid' breeding program. These are very common in some areas of Europe and especially on the larger breeding farms.

Mares are bred year after year. Foals are weaned at the earliest possible date and the mares are re-bred often on their foal heats.

From time to time the hard wired instinctual behavior which involves stimulation of 'focal' points isn't working at optimum.

This is such a case. This filly is nine days old....this is her first leading... 



I let her reach the end of the lead..and wait for her to choose to return to me.





She comes straight into my hands for solace.
Ordinarily she would have tried to go to her mother, but their connection was weak.



I have demonstrated to the owner of the mare and foal where to 'touch' and how.
At the same time I am balancing the foal, softening root in this photograph.




In this photo the mare's instincts have been stimulated and are kicking in.
She is working on a heart connection between her and her foal. 

It isn't always as quick and easy as the example posted here. It sometimes takes a try or two but success has been inevitable in my experience. I've had total success with mares who have rejected their foals entirely, not allowing them near to nurse.



It Takes Good Hands

'Back in the day' when I was actively coaching young riders I was given what I considered to be the supreme compliment....and oddly enough it didn't come at a horse show.
We had a few horses at an auction sale in South Western Ontario. Three or four of my students were riding our horses through the sale in a very small ring....but just big enough to jog, stop turn kind of thing.
The last horse was ridden in and the 'pedigree man'....Roy (Ionsons Saddlery) turned to me and asked if this was one of my students...I said yes...and he said...I could tell...they all have good hands.
By that he meant soft feel for the horse.
I started all my students with that as our primary focus to moving forward in their lessons...and it didn't start on the horse.
It began with a piece of baling twine...
I'd put the kids in pairs and they 'drove' each other around the ring...the one in front holding the baling twine in 'open' hands learning how little 'lift' it took for them to feel while the 'driver' was learning the same....
They learned that downward transitions were less stressful on them when there was some kind of cue before lifting or worse yet pulling back on the twine. Our cue was an 'outbreath'.
Mounted lessons were 'reinless' until independent balance was established and the ability to influence rhythm was solid.
The kids did well at the shows.
Their horses were happy and calm..and it showed.
We were rebels in that we paired young kids with young horses and they created push button horses...with their own buttons.
I 'Googled' to get some information on teaching 'good hands' or 'balanced riding' and found some good articles...but 1/2 way down the search page the sites began to be more about training the horse than educating the rider.
Riding bit-less is no help to the horse either unless the rider has solidly implemented skills to remain in balance and rhythm with independent hands. Pulling back, or keeping a tight rein on a halter creates equal anxiety and tension in the horse.
Whether it is leading a horse, lunging a horse or riding a horse.....please have kind hands.

It Takes Good Hands

'Back in the day' when I was actively coaching young riders I was given what I considered to be the supreme compliment....and oddly enough it didn't come at a horse show.
We had a few horses at an auction sale in South Western Ontario. Three or four of my students were riding our horses through the sale in a very small ring....but just big enough to jog, stop turn kind of thing.
The last horse was ridden in and the 'pedigree man'....Roy (Ionsons Saddlery) turned to me and asked if this was one of my students...I said yes...and he said...I could tell...they all have good hands.
By that he meant soft feel for the horse.
I started all my students with that as our primary focus to moving forward in their lessons...and it didn't start on the horse.
It began with a piece of baling twine...
I'd put the kids in pairs and they 'drove' each other around the ring...the one in front holding the baling twine in 'open' hands learning how little 'lift' it took for them to feel while the 'driver' was learning the same....
They learned that downward transitions were less stressful on them when there was some kind of cue before lifting or worse yet pulling back on the twine. Our cue was an 'outbreath'.
Mounted lessons were 'reinless' until independent balance was established and the ability to influence rhythm was solid.
The kids did well at the shows.
Their horses were happy and calm..and it showed.
We were rebels in that we paired young kids with young horses and they created push button horses...with their own buttons.
I 'Googled' to get some information on teaching 'good hands' or 'balanced riding' and found some good articles...but 1/2 way down the search page the sites began to be more about training the horse than educating the rider.
Riding bit-less is no help to the horse either unless the rider has solidly implemented skills to remain in balance and rhythm with independent hands. Pulling back, or keeping a tight rein on a halter creates equal anxiety and tension in the horse.
Whether it is leading a horse, lunging a horse or riding a horse.....please have kind hands.

Friday, 28 September 2012

Clothing and Autisitcs



Some autistic people cannot tolerate touch. Much of the materials used in the manufacture of clothing are painful to the body especially if the garment is snug, has collars and cuffs, prone to charging up with static electricity, has sewn in tags etc...this is not imagined discomfort. When the 'autistic' pulls on the material or tries to remove the garment it is because it is stimulating what I am going to call 'nerve endings' for now.
If our system becomes 'imbalanced and ungrounded' it is as though all of the nerve endings in our entire body become exposed. I need you to imagine what that feels like for a moment.
When this begins to occur, we will avoid 'other' people and places, foods and feelings that heighten the pain....I won't even call it 'discomfort' because that doesn't begin to describe it.
We avoid these things because one more iota of energy from an 'outside' source can put us over the edge.
In order to self manage we will sit and rock, run on tip toes (because the weight of our selves on the 'full foot' is excruciating) hand flap, spin, scream.......OR stay very still and focus on something...anything...which takes us to another place where the pain is not. Clothing...we like loose fitting natural fibers, no tight at all OR very snug which creates a swaddling effect. This swaddling helps flood all of the energy centers and redistributes it in a balanced way.
If we need to we will find ways to 'swaddle' ourselves such as rolling up tightly in a blanket head, feet and all...and staying there until the flood of feelings subsides.


Trick Ponies...and autism

So, perhaps you have taken your 'autistic' child to an equine therapy facility and the experience was not a 'good one'.....
either the vibration was simply not a match or as is the usual cause the horses themselves are not in a good state of balance.
Try another 'facility'.....shop around until it feels right.
This type of interaction rarely if ever requires riding the horse.
Autistics can sense a 'trick pony' a mile away and will empathize with them....why? Because it is at the moment they become a trick pony in your home that they begin to turn away............